Why do some men think feminists are lesbians?

I'm not a lesbian, and I don't hate men. All I want is the same respect as a man has, and equal rights. Not much to ask for. Why do some men think women who don't accept male dominance are gay? Just because we don't want to be ordered around by men, doesn't mean we never find men attractive. You can find women attractive, but you don't want us to objectify or order them around!